I decided to try to write from a more positive perspective and have looked for the silver lining in our recent time with family. There are no words to describe the past week and a half, so I didn’t even attempt a wrap up last Friday. I did write a separate post which helped me get my thoughts together – which I called Shock – feel free to have a read.
Here’s my silver lining summary but not in 50 words or less…that would have been just too hard!
Warm sunny days
Spring flowers, wattle, magnolias flowering
My three girls together with all the family
Fun times with everyone
beautiful days at the beach
playing on the swings
walking and running along the beach when I should have been at work
running at anytime of the day and continually beating my running times
walks in the bush
frost free days
endless cups of tea
sharing stories and memories
reconnecting with old friends
being looked after
girl time pedicure fun
lots of takeaways
world famous fish and chips at the beach
running with the kangaroos (forget running with the bulls)
chatting in the sun
my silly girls breathing fresh air into our days
lots of cake and biscuits
hugs and kisses
vases of flowers everywhere
childhood memories rediscovered
reminiscing over old photos
years disappearing the more we talked
slow days, long days
tremendous support from family and friends
finding out just how many people loved Cliff!
This was my first attempt for this week’s 50 word summary without the silver lining theme – I don’t think it’s too bleak:
Sadness, shock, stunned silence.
Photos, stories, laughter, tears.
Warm days at the beach, sand & the soothing sound of waves.
Runs along the coast & in the bush with kangaroos.
Funeral black, hugs, tears, kisses, goodbyes. Old friends, good friends, Tumbarumba friends.
Love & support for family – never ending.
Let me know how you deal with grief and if writing is helpful to you.
I keep hearing the song sunshine after the rain playing in my head!