MOB update #3 – Trials and chook runs

Update #3 from Mother of the Bride (aka MOB)

There are now just 33 days to go until THE WEDDING.

My daughter, B2B and fiance G2B, and two of the beautiful bridesmaids have just been and gone!  We had  a weekend jam-packed with all things wedding related. As they all live a long way away (with one bridesmaid still in England), it was a rare opportunity for us all to get together, in the family home, to discuss the plans.

with bridesmaids

B2B with two of her bridesmaids – don’t they look beautiful!

B2B had organised their trials – hair and makeup to the uninitiated – and we had a full schedule of visits planned. We were organised, took notes, asked questions and taste-tested our way through the day.  We also managed to get the bonbonniere all sorted – it was full on!

We haven’t been able to organise an Australian Hen’s party due to distances involved, so the weekend was the closest we came to it.  The bridesmaids had thoughtfully bought a ‘Bride to Be’ tiara and sash and cleverly presented it to her as we were driving to our first appointment of the day, as there was no escaping.  B2B was less than ebullient in her enthusiasm for such items but to her credit she did wear them throughout the weekend, with some gentle prompting required from time to time. Luckily some of her English friends had taken her out while she was over in UK recently, so I don’t think she has missed out on too much. But what would I know – I can’t remember the last Hen’s party that I went to, or even if I have ever been to one!!

I, on the other hand, will admit to being very excited to receive my ‘Mother of the Bride’ badge, which just happened to match the dress that I was wearing, and I conveyed said excitement by clapping my hands and squealing, while still managing to keep the car on the road (I was the driver!).

My MOB badge

Chook run: Now this requires concentration so read carefully… Australia we call chickens ‘chooks’ and a hen is a type of ‘chook’.  As we were having a sort of a ‘hen’s party’ weekend I dubbed our early morning walk/run a ‘Chook run’. We all got up very early, just after sunrise, and headed up into the pine forest for a healthy walk/run to start our day.  It was a warmish morning even at that hour, with a hint of the heat that was to come later in the day, and it was crisp and clear. The snow was still visible in the distance on the main range, the kangaroos were jumping around, rabbits were running across the path and the birds were laughing.  What bliss!! We felt good when we returned for breakfast after doing a distance of 6km. The girls got up again the next morning and repeated the chook run. So that’s the ‘Chook run’ part of my post title explained!


Some of the fare that needed to be taste tested.

As you may know from my previous MOB updates,  the B2B, is also due to finish her Masters degree, just days before the wedding. She assures us that she has it all under control and I believe her –  if anyone can do it, she can!! G2B has been great helping with decisions and choices and most importantly with supporting B2B with the writing of her dissertation.  You can tell that he is getting excited for their big day too.

Bride to Be

So what else has been happening?

Lots of things have been purchased, lists made, programs deliberated upon, readings discussed, seating plans, accommodation lists, flowers, aisle decorations, music, speeches, delegating of jobs….all this (and much more) for just one special day.

Luckily I love my daughter to bits or it mightn’t be so much fun!

My husband, FOB, is still quite cool, calm and collected and is a very good influence on B2B when things get a tad stressful. We have bought him a new suit and he will look very dapper on the day. We have been very busy in the garden, and it’s looking lovely!


Following on from my last update MOB update #2you’ll be pleased to know that I went ahead and had a trial spray tan and am thrilled with the results.  I kept it a surprise from B2B and I’m not sure what she really thought as there was much eyebrow raising going on. I’m a fan!

I will admit to having spent many hours trawling Pinterest and the internet for ideas and have learnt a lot in the process. There is so much out there, so many things that I had no idea about!

All in all the trial weekend was a success with lots of decisions made and discussions had.  There are still lots of things to do but I’m confident that it will all fall into place.

So my MOB journey continues….not long to go now!

Deb 🙂

PS. I couldn’t help but think of this week’s photo challenge theme of Boundaries while writing this post: Boundaries impose limits on us, whether they’re social constructs or real, physical objects…They’re there to stop us from doing or saying what we actually want to. But they also give structure to our actions and frame our movements. Being the Mother of the Bride requires an awareness of one’s boundaries and I am learning a lot!

You can read my previous MOB posts here if you missed them:

MOB update #2

I’ve found IT

MOB update #1

Venturing into a brave new world

It’s official – I’ve joined the MOB

Shall we Dance.

Glossary of terms:

MOB – Mother of the Bride

FOB – Father of the Bride

B2B –  Bride to Be

G2B – Groom to Be

  One thought on “MOB update #3 – Trials and chook runs

  1. October 4, 2015 at 6:33 pm

    I can feel your excitement 😀😀

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  2. SMP
    October 4, 2015 at 9:27 pm

    Really enjoyed your post Deb, took my mind away from other ‘things’ Sarah looks lovely, she is certainly going to make a beautiful bride. Sounds as if you had a great weekend.

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    • October 4, 2015 at 9:39 pm

      Glad it helped distract you – even if just for a few minutes. She will be a beautiful bride!! It was really nice having them all here.


  3. graydaysandcoffee
    October 5, 2015 at 12:49 am

    So exciting!

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    • October 5, 2015 at 1:34 pm

      I know – it’s great to be involved in it all.


  4. October 5, 2015 at 1:09 am

    Love you all!

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  5. October 5, 2015 at 6:55 am

    Lovely, I hope it all goes beautifully as I’m sure it will.

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    • October 5, 2015 at 1:33 pm

      Thanks so much! It will all be beautiful and she is a very organised bride to be so I’m certain it will come together nicely

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  6. October 5, 2015 at 12:24 pm

    How exciting!!!! Love hearing your updates and I love your chook run idea!! How fun.

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    • October 5, 2015 at 12:50 pm

      Thanks Desley! The chook run was great 🙂 It was a fun weekend with a bit of tension thrown in but what’s a wedding planning weekend without a few tense moments thrown in – think hair not being right, not being used to makeup, decisions to be made….It will all come together in the end!

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      • October 5, 2015 at 12:52 pm

        It will definitely all come together but yes, there’s always tension – it helps with getting things done I think.

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  7. October 6, 2015 at 12:03 am

    I loved the update. Organizing a wedding is definitely a big undertaking but this one is under control and I am sure it will be beautiful.
    Your B2B is gorgeous. Looks like MOB!
    And it is all so exciting! I cannot wait to see the photos.

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  8. October 6, 2015 at 12:42 pm

    Oh it sounds like plans are coming together beautifully Feb! Thanks so much for sharing the photos B2B and friends are gorgeous!

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  9. October 8, 2015 at 7:11 am

    So exciting Debbie! I loved it when I was given my MOB badge for the Hens Party. Sounds like you are all on track. It’s hard with these B2Bs being so far away. Thank goodness for long phone calls.

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    • October 8, 2015 at 9:59 pm

      Yes, it’s a fun time with the distances involved but we’re managing quite well so far. Not long now!


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