Dottie's first birthday
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Hip hip hooray, it’s Dottie’s first birthday!

Can you believe our little granddaughter Dottie is turning 1?

Dottie Smiles 🙂

This time last year was very difficult with so many emotions – happiness, fear, love, worry!

But, as bad as it was back then, I’m just glad it happened in 2019 and not 2020!

Dottie arrived early…very early – like 15 weeks early!

I can still clearly remember getting the phone call that Monday night (Australian time). I was at a Rotary meeting, with the District Governor as our guest speaker. He had just finished his talk to the group and we were chatting away when my phone rang. It flashed up as Melanie calling, but instead of her voice, it was Craig telling me she had gone into early labour and was most likely going to have the baby that day.

I must admit I couldn’t take it all in at the time. She was only 25 weeks pregnant and to my knowledge that was far too early to have a baby. I handed the phone to my husband to try and get him to understand the situation as I was very upset. It really ruined the whole Rotary meeting with everyone soon knowing that something was very wrong. But they were all concerned for our family and offered support in many ways.

After talking to many people that night and being very confused I drove home via my book club meeting (which I had planned to do all along) and basically collapsed into the arms of my friends. They were brilliant with their soothing, calming messages of hope and love, and I tried to relax before continuing on home. I had trouble sleeping until I finally got a message that Dottie had arrived safely weighing a mere 845grams (1lb 13oz).

She started her life fighting and we were all willing her on. Even now I can’t go anywhere without people asking how Dottie is getting on!

Dottie was immediately taken from Taunton Hospital to the Neo Natal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) in Southmead at Bristol. Melanie didn’t get to go with Dottie until the next day and this was very hard for her.

Photo of little Dottie holding her mummy’s finger – used with permission

And so Dottie became our little star. And her parents adapted as best they could to this new world. She had ups and downs and you can only imagine the worry we had as we were on the other side of the world.

I managed to fly to England and was there within a week of Dottie being born. I really wanted to support my daughter and Craig, and to meet my newest, tiniest little granddaughter Dottie. It was a long long flight, which I did alone, but I’m so glad I did it. Melanie, being Australian, has no family of her own nearby so I knew I had to be there with her.

I was able to stay with them for a month and learnt so much about premature babies, their brave parents, NICU – it was like entering a whole new world I never knew existed before. I found strength and hope in watching the staff work with Dottie and seeing her fight and grow.

While I was with Dottie my first granddaughter Emilia, turned one back in Australia, and I wasn’t there to celebrate – again so many emotions.

Melanie and Dottie
Dottie is off her oxygen
Dottie and her dad
Walking Dottie
Dottie leaving hospital
Family Smiles
Dottie 6 weeks old
Three generations of girls
Granny Debs meeting Dottie
Dottie
Dottie is a month old
Dottie is growing
Melanie, Dottie and Papa G
Finding peace with Dottie

Can you imagine if that had happened this year, with Covid on the rampage? I probably wouldn’t have been able to leave Australia as very few flights are available and permission has to be granted to leave the country. It really doesn’t bear thinking about.

Dottie comes home

Dottie had 14 weeks in NICU, coming home from hospital 98 days after being born, a week before her due date. We were there to welcome her home, which was a fantastic but a nerve wracking feeling. She was on oxygen at home for the first few months and has gone from strength to strength. Can you believe I had to wait nearly 14 weeks for a cuddle? It was awesome when it finally happened.

When COVID struck, she had to be ‘shielded’ due to her vulnerability having been born so early. It’s been incredibly hard on Melanie and Craig but their love and unwavering belief in her has carried them through.

I am beyond proud of the amazing job Melanie and Craig have done, with getting through all of this and bringing Dottie up the way they have. She is the brightest little girl, with a smile and laugh that is contagious. She loves her food, her Ozzy dog and life in general!

Dottie smile
Dottie smile

Dottie turns 1

It hasn’t been an easy 12 months in lots of ways but here she is now turning 1! I have to say she has grown up into the sweetest little poppet, she’s still tiny but feisty. She gives us all so much joy to see her smiles, her eating methods, her giggles, her growth and her happy beautiful personality shining through.

I’m so glad we were able to spend 3 months with them late last year, as given the conditions at the moment, I can’t say when we will be able to travel to England to see them all again.

It’s also been good how Melanie has been willing to share Dottie’s progress, as everyone we know will ask after her. They have followed along and taken nearly as much delight in seeing her develop as we have. She has had so much love during her first year, and so has our family – many thanks to you all!

These are some words I’ve attributed to Dottie.

D: Determined

O: One-of-a-kind

T: Tenacious

T: Tiny

I: Incredible

E: Energetic

Dottie will make you smile

Just try watching this short video of Dottie on the swing (one of our birthday presents to her), with Ozzy helping push her, without breaking into delighted smiles. The giggles make me smile every time!

If I can’t actually be there with her for her birthday (as I’d been planning), then this is almost the next best thing!

Our family has been through a lot in the last few years and we continue to help each other time after time. I’m so lucky!

Thanks for your support during this time. It’s been so lovely having readers leave comments and follow Dottie’s story when I’ve shared bits and pieces on my blog. You’ve all played a huge part in getting Dottie, and us, through this first year.

I’m a proud mother and a very proud Granny.

Happy first birthday Dottie! Here’s hoping I can make it over there for your second!

Granny Debs xx

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88 Replies to “Hip hip hooray, it’s Dottie’s first birthday!”

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    1. Many thanks for all your support over the past year Leslie. I can’t believe Dottie is now 1 in some ways, but I’m so happy with how things have turned out during that year. She is just adorable and bring such joy to us all.

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  6. such a joy to have watched Dottie grow from the wee sweet pea to his vibrant one year old. As you say Debbie thank goodness she wasn’t born in the time of COVID! Thank you and Melanie for sharing her journey. It really has been inspiring.

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    1. Thanks Sue, she has done so well and I’m so proud of my daughter and son-in-law for all they’ve done throughout the year. It couldn’t have been easy on them. I just wish I lived closer to them xx

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  8. Happy birthday Dottie, such a happy laugh. My granddaughter Harriet was only sick 3 weeks and that was heart breaking as a grandparent/mother wanting to protect and make things better. So for your family to endure all you have with Dottie , and to see her smile and laugh is such a joy. Grand children snuggle into our hearts and take up a lot of space

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    1. Thanks Leanne, she has the most gorgeous laugh and smile on her face most of the time. She is pure joy! I just want to snuggle her all the time but seeing her on the screen has to be good enough for now. I hope your granddaughter is feeling better and I can relate to you wanting to make things better for her, I’ve never wanted anything so bad during this past year. xx

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  10. Hi Deb, First birthdays are always special. Especially for Dottie and the entire family. She really is a miracle baby. She obviously has a fighting spirit and she is surrounded by a great deal of love. Until you mentioned the 2019 versus 2020, I had not thought about all of the changes that may have affected Dottie’s care.

    I am goosebumpy and teary as you relay the story about getting that initial phone call. The holy sh___ on her birth weight. The older I get and the more I see, so much is not in our control. Certain spirits are meant to enter our Earth and stay for a period of time. (Deb, you just inspired me for a topic for a possible future meeting – something I would not put in writing because of privacy)

    Gratitude is not a big enough word to describe all and everything in NICU – angels on Earth. Dottie’s smile is infectious – likely not the first time you have heard this. You are right about tiny and feisty. The giggles on the swing…….happy tears from me. xx ❤️

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    1. Thanks Erica, I’ve shed some happy tears during the year believe me!! I’m also learning that so much is out of our control no matter how hard we want it to be different. You’re right gratitude isn’t a big enough word to describe all that the medical staff do. I just love her laugh, it makes my world fill with joy. xx

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