Why only 12 things, and not 60?
As I’m now 59 and approaching my 60th birthday (at the end of this year), I am keen to tick off a few things and figured I’d share my JOY list with you.
I don’t have a bucket list as such, instead I call it a JOY list.
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You may be wondering why I didn’t go the whole hog and list 60 things to do before turning 60, as most people would do. For one thing I’m not most people!!!
Well there are a few reasons why:
- my birthday is 12/12 – so 12 is always my favourite number
- 60 things sounded like waaaayyy too many things to think of 🤣(and I’m basically a lazy person)
- there are 12 months in the year so that works out at 1 thing each month = doable
- I don’t want to overwhelm myself and then end up failing in my quest

So without further ado I give you my list:
- Celebrate 40th wedding anniversary in London and buy myself something ‘Ruby’ nice ✅
- Be there when E and S bring their baby boy home from hospital – due early March
- Investigate taking the Mathematician to Darwin – I have been there before but the Mathematician hasn’t
- Make plans to visit Western Australia
- Make a list of 60 things that make me happy
- Donate at least $60 to charity ✅
- Make a playlist with 60 favourite songs
- Read at least 60 books in the year and write/share reviews of some of them
- Visit Tiny and Lea Rosser in Sydney with mum – see my post What has been the most unusual, unexpected or just plain weird connection you’ve made as a blogger?
- Ride on the Tumbarumba to Rosewood Rail Trail as many times as possible in the year – it’s opening in early April 2020 and we’ve been very much involved for many years!
- Investigate a trip to Canada for 2021?
- Jump at all opportunities that come my way and get photos wherever possible
- Investigate getting my book Dottie and the Wombat published properly
Progress so far
So far I can tick off #1 as we celebrated our 40th wedding anniversary with a day out in London at the end of our recent 2 month trip to UK to see our daughter and premature granddaughter Dottie. I also bought myself this pretty little Ruby ring.

I can also tick off #6 as I have made a donation to our local Rotary Club in aid of the Bushfire appeal in our community.
I’ve made a start on #12 , jumping at every opportunity – quite literally – and will be updating my WOTY progress at the beginning of each month. Here’s me in action recently jumping for joy at the beach 🙂

Eagle eyed readers might also notice that I have actually listed 13 things – I am not as mathematically challenged as you may think!
I am keen to publish my story book about Dottie and added it to the list at the last minute. My friend and author, Jo from And Anyways, has been giving me some links to check out, so I’m starting that process as we speak! If you have any tips or contacts please let me know.
So that’s my 12 things to do before turning 60 – something to focus on for the months ahead and you’ll all hold me accountable. I’ll keep you updated on my progress in future posts.
Is there anything else you’d add to my list, or any tips you can offer if you’ve attempted something similar? All suggestions will be gracefully accepted.
Deb xx

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It’s a fabulous list and I’d love to help as much as I can re Dottie and the Wombat. A question – will the Rosewood Trail be one that’s good to walk?
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Yes it’s an ideal walk Jo, when you come down we will make sure we do some of it. The whole length is 22kms but you don’t have to walk the whole way. It will be sealed all the way too so ideal for wheelchairs, prams, mobility scooters etc. Just no horses or dogs allowed.
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Fabulous! Thanks.
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Go for it and enjoy!
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Many thanks, I’ll give it a go!
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You forgot to add “invite my sister on my trip to Canada in 2021”.
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OK – consider it done!!
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It’s good to have goals, and yours seem just the right combination of having fun and stretching yourself. I love to read but 60 book in a year sounds like quite a mountain to climb… good luck!
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Thanks Janis, I didn’t want anything too hard or onerous so have kept it fairly simple. I’m actually hoping to read 100 books this year!!
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Goosebumps on the 12/12, Deb. I think we have had this discussion before. Number 2 on your list made me immediately smile for many reasons. Very pretty ruby ring. I look forward to following you on what will be a great year!
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Yes I love my 12/12 birthday date and I feel very special! We have discussed the number thing before 😊 my new ring is very nice and I’m happy to have it as my wedding and engagement rings were worn out years ago!! Stick with me through the year.
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Sticking with you is easy and fun. 🙂 My birthstone is ruby and rubies are part of my engagement ring and sentimental jewelry. I look forward to reading about you and the rest of the story.
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Deb, revisiting and sharing SM #MLSTL
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Sounds like you are going to have a wonderful year.
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I hope so Kate! I’ll keep you posted 😊
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Fabulous list! I’m also 59 and believe I need to get started on some sort of checklist. Great idea, thinks for sharing your plans.
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Get your thinking cap on Cheryl and let me know what you decide! It’s a bit of fun and helps me focus on some plans instead of the year just disappearing. Thanks for commenting 😊
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You have a great plan for celebrating your 60th! 🎉🎈
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Thanks carol, I’m quite looking forward to ticking off some of these items during the year!
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Your posts are so motivating. Good luck with your list!
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Many thanks Shiju, that’s so nice of you to say!
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Fabulous list, Debbie. I quite like your Item #11 🙂 I’d love to meet up when you visit Canada. #MLSTL
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Oh don’t worry Natalie there’s quite a few of you I’d love to meet if/when we make it over there!! Thanks for stopping by 🙂
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There are some wonderful things on your list. Planning a trip to Canada would be great. I’ve been four times and loved every trip. I saw on FB that the Rail Trail is opening in April. Very exciting! #MLSTL Sharing
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Yes our rail trail will be a great asset to the town and area Jennifer, you’ll have to come up and have a look! I’m keen to go to Canada and so am in awe of your 4 trips! Thanks for sharing.
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I love that you only chose 12 (13) things Deb – those giant long lists do my head in and I wonder how many straws they grasp at to fill it? I saw #4 and if you get as far as Bunbury then we NEED to do coffee – and we have a lovely guest room that you’re welcome to use if you’re around for a longer SW visit. How unbelievable is it that 60 is now a reality? I’m sure that’s my Mum’s age!!
Thanks for linking up with us at MLSTL and I’ve shared on my SM 😊
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😂 thanks Leanne! As I said in my post I’m basically a lazy person and 12 (13) was enough for me to think about and having any hope of achieving! I thought of you as I wrote #4 so will definitely add a stopover in. I know I can’t believe I’m turning 60 this year, it just doesn’t seem right!! Thanks for sharing for MLSTL, it fits right in the midlife section 😊
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Even though it’s only a baker’s dozen of things to do, it sounds like a lot of action is involved. And I can’t wait to see your book in print.
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Thanks for your ongoing support Jennifer, I’m aiming to be a woman of action this year!
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Congrats on a yearlong celebration of your 60th! Looks like you’re off to a great start. I especially like #s 12 & 13…I’m sure you’ll be keeping your readership up on progress of all listed…right?
On my 6th decade b-day, a cousin made me one of her famous multi-layer cakes…along with a surprize party organized by my hubby (middle child came in from out of town to my delight). Anyway, a photo of the infamous ‘decade cake’ is found here FYI: http://laurabrunolilly.com/heres-to-the-nines/
Keep on jumpin’!
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Oh I love that cake and your post about ‘9’ birthdays Laura! What a lovely surprise for you it must have been! My daughters have been known to come home and surprise me over the years too, which I just love! Thanks for sharing and visiting me.
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What a great way to celebrate a special year. I love how you’ve ticked off some items already!
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Thanks Corinne, I can’t believe a month of the new year is over already!
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I love your list! Very ambitious but why not?! Spotify would help you compile your playlist. I love your ruby ring
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Thanks for you visit and comment 🙂 I’m happy I can achieve my list during the year!
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Great idea Deb and also I think keeping it to 12 rather than 60 things is very wise and very doable. You have started well and I love your anniversary ring – just beautiful. I hope I can see you in March when you visit your grandson – such an exciting time for you all. I’ve wanted to see the Outback and I think this year we will holiday at home and finally do a driving holiday of Tassie. You’ve inspired me to make a list – I’m 63 in August so maybe 8 things because I was born in the 8th month. Thanks for sharing and inspiring us each week at #MLSTL. Enjoy! xx
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I’m hoping we can catch up next month Sue! I’m happy to hear I might have inspired you to make a start on a list, and 8 sounds very achievable! Thanks to you and Leanne for your weekly linkup it’s always a delight 🙂
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I love your joy list, Deb, and your rationale for choosing a dozen (a baker’s dozen, right?). That ring is beautiful! I’m looking forward to hearing of your progress throughout the year. #MLSTL
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Thanks Christie, at least I’m honest in my rationale! I think I’m going to enjoy completing my list bit by bit and sharing my progress.
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Well, my list will be boring as it’s only one 🙄 Deb, I love your doable list and especially the one where you get bike on the trail which has consumed quite a bit of community time. Look forward to reading all about it as the year progresses. All the best for rebuilding your community xx
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Yes Suz, the rail trail has consumed a lot of our time and it will be a great asset to town. Thanks for your thoughts and I’m sure you’ll hear about how I’m progressing during the year 🙂
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Yes, I’m sure I will 🙂
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Deb – what a fun way to celebrate your life with a list of amazing things to do! Good luck and i look forward to seeing your progress!
~Allison
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Thanks Allison, many thanks for your comment and I hope you’ll pop back for updates 🙂
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Fabulous list! And great job jumping, yes, jumping right in! I am working on finishing up my children’s book and then I will need to pick your brain and Jo’s for tips about trying to get it published. That baby BOY will be here before you know it.
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Lots of good ideas! Happy Anniversary and I like your new ring! Publishing the book would be awesome!
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Thanks Dee, lots happening that’s for sure!
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I ABSOLUTELY LOVE this list, Debbie. Especially, #11. Your room is ready!
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I wondered if you’d like #11 🙂 . Can’t wait to visit one day!
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A trip to Canada! Now that is a great thing to have on the list. We are planning a trip to New Zealand for 2021 as I will be turning 60! Let’s chat about getting together in either or both!
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How exciting!! Let’s definitely try to plan something 🙂
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For sure! We are just starting to put an itinerary together. I kept your note about Rail trails from some time ago.
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Another reason for stopping at 12 treats : you have many,many good years ahead. This is just a special bus stop along the way. Enjoy.
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That’s so true Rachel and a lovely way of looking at it! Thanks for stopping by and for your great comment 🙂
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